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I would personally say this assessment is spot on as I've run into it several times in my life. I could easily go out and find someone to fuck, I feel like a lot of people could, but there are a lot of social and potentially physical repercussions from such behavior. I appreciate your response though, it sounds as if you understand this woman's issue and aren't just mocking her like she could just go out and get dick at any time.

Thank you that's what I've been trying to say this whole time. If the situation is as straightforward as the OP says, an average looking girl looking for average guys to have sex with then she shouldn't have a problem. But the fact that she has been turned down in the past by guys just means that there is more to this situation then what is being said.

I don't see a reason to mock her. She just presented her take on a situation and I tried to provide a different one. A lot of my male friends and I who are all relatively good looking in the range of s got on tinder to see how many matches we would get.

Few of my female friends who are in the same range of attractiveness got hundreds. I mean literally she swiped no for 10 minutes straight and was still getting matches. And this is a hookup app. You might not be able to get sex with the one guy that you want, but I'm of the opinion it is significantly easier for you to get sex than the average guy. It's weird on Tinder. I'm female and get a lot of matches, but they don't always talk to me.

I'm pretty sure a lot of guys were just swiping right for most women to see what they could choose from. We click yes on everyone and the choose the ones we find attractive. Sadly if you don't look like a Calvin Klein model you don't really have room to be extremely picky due to how women rate men on dating apps.

I actually prefer meeting guys in real life and I'm much more successful that way. I don't like selling myself, so I don't put much effort into making a sexy profile. Am I the only guy who doesn't do this? Why swipe right if it's someone you know you wouldn't be interested in? I agree that it is weird but it takes too long to go through every profile and choose the ones you like.

If you click yes on everyone, all your matches get presented and you choose the ones you like. I don't swipe right for all either, but my friend does. He does it for simplicity. It takes him less than a minute to finish his stack of women.

And then he only sees who likes him back and sorts from there. I take the time and eliminate any bad matches, but mostly do the same thing. Kinda classic optimist vs realist strategies here. Many guys take the spamming approach to online dating. They have nothing to lose by trying and no less annoying way to meet someone. Seems like a serious software design flaw. A team of women need to write a dating app. I just find it funny, how some guys see a "hook up app" and think it means they can just say whatever and they'll get laid.

I get their perspective, but I also feel like guys are just as emotional as women. I don't always know where the communication breakdown comes, but Tinder is a cool social experiment.

Maybe I'll get my friends together and try to make a dating app. What do you think about this: If someone is confused, be honest about being confused, ex. I would probably hook up with someone but I'm scared of emotional fallout. Are you actually looking for a hookup or do you want a relationship? Also, I'm down for dating and a relationship but I won't know until I get to know you.

Maybe people need to be honest with themselves? Now this is devolving into a conversation about people and how well they know themselves.

Anyway, I LOVE open conversation and honest conversation even though it's sometimes viewed as "crazy. Is your career in order? Let's see where this goes. It wasn't a guarantee they would work, but they asked important questions from the start, and weren't afraid.

I like that approach. I like the honesty concept. A challenge is that since a profile has your real life photo and information people may be guarded and only say banal safe things. Can you think of ways to make it safe to be honest? I agree men are emotional and the disconnect probably comes from a lack of experience honestly discussing things and differences in what one person thinks they're writing and what the other person is reading.

A real life convo has so much more information than texts could hope to, unless they're written by professional writers. I think that the fear aspect is always a factor, just hard to judge online.

The only way to get around that is for people to trust their instincts. There's no surefire way around that. I agree with the disconnect. I've experienced men who get really emotional about casual hookups when I was trying to be honest with them, and same goes for me. I think both have a responsibility to their partner, regardless of the "I told you I wasn't looking for a relationship" line to cut it off when the person who said that sees the other one is developing feelings.

The more we talk about this, the more I just see how much I want someone who knows themselves haha. Hence my distaste for online dating. I guess it's just easier in person. Online I think people just feel either more restricted or more free, depending on the personality.

When I talk to guys online who I feel are more restricted by it, I like them more, then it backfires! Yeah I never really message girls on Tinder. It mostly stems from I have no idea what to say online to a random person I've never met, and partly from what you described as well. Oh I do sometimes. I would say that the majority of guys I connect with on there don't say anything first though. I don't even really know why I'm on there, probably boredom. I'm not suggesting that my experience is normal, or that you're like any of the women I interact with, but here's my experience, hopefully you can see how frustrating it might be.

Tinder is such a weird animal because you get to know almost nothing about a person besides a few pictures before you swipe. So I approach it as "Could I bang her in a pinch? For every or so profiles I swipe right, I get about one match.

From there I check out the profiles I'm matched with an message about half to a third of the matches based on my tastes in women at the moment or which one had the funniest profile text or whatever. Usually I start with some basic comment about why I matched them, "I loved the shot of you in the [whatever] costume, are you all geared up for Halloween yet?

Of the ones that do I usually get word responses. From there I start asking basic questions about where they're from or what they do for fun or what part of town they're in.

Still the word responses, never asking any questions back. About one in 10 of the ones that have responded at all do what I would call "participate" in the conversation. So moving on from there after a bit of a back and forth I ask if we can switch to texting. If she says yes to texting I consider that a strong indicator of interest in meeting up.

So after a bit more chatting I ask if they'd like to do some sort of previously discussed common interest. I have had a number of lady friends mention casually that they primarily use things like Tinder or OKCupid as a self esteem boost and have no intention of meeting anyone they like or even chat with.

If you don't get a messag from me it's likely not a lack of interest specifically in you, it's just I sometimes get tired of climbing up the proverbial hill yet again to not even get to go out and have coffee and a decent conversation face to face with another human being. I don't know why I'm on Tinder. I'm using it as more of a dating app. Some other guys are too will say "no one night stands" in their profile. I think that's part of the reason it fails for me.

As for the ego boost, I've found it does the opposite for me. When I go out I have no problem meeting guys. I just do better in real life. Plus the conversation in real life for me is always better. I guess I get turned off by guys saying things that seem to hint at meeting up right away like, literally the same night: It's a bit unfair to those who really want to meet and are cool, because the creep factor on Tinder seems to be different.

I'm much more wary of things like that online when I can't get a personal vibe. What you're saying makes sense, and honestly, I think I'm just going to stick with meeting guys in person because it works better for me. There's still the odd chance that someone on Tinder could be a good match, but the medium seems to mess it up. A actually feel with a few of the guys I match with on Tinder, we would like each other if we met at a party or something, but the rules of the game are different online for some reason.

Also like I said, I don't give off the "hook up right away" vibe, so I think I get rejected for that pretty quickly. No matter who I hook up with I need to size them up before talking about it, so I won't go there in the conversation immediately.

Tinder really isn't for me, basically. I deleted it for a while, went back on with false renewed hope, and have essentially ignored it. FWIW, it wasn't obvious in my original post, but I almost never ask to meet up the same day I initially message someone.

Because I'm the type that even if it's going to be a one night stand which I don't actively look for I would want it to be someone I have an actual connection with and not just someone that I think is passingly attractive. I mostly think that a large part of the reason I don't have a lot of luck on Tinder is because I'm not really that into it.

I get nervous about the pressure that comes along with the app. When I meet a guy when I'm out, and things naturally go somewhere kissing, etc. I feel better about it being organic, as opposed to "we should do this because we are on a date. Regardless of if it's serious or not.

Not ragging on you here. I know exactly what you mean. I primarily use OKC for dating, but that's something that came as a strange realization several months in. Trying to take a step back and think, "If I met this person at work or some other social outing, would I have asked for their number?

And yet I still might catch myself doing "dating" things with someone I wouldn't normally otherwise date. I think I've gotten a little better about it, but it's still difficult to try to remove yourself from the immediate situation and try to analyze what's really going on. So, fwiw, you're not alone.

Someone else out there feels the same way: I know this is unsolicited advice, but when you're wanting to ask out those girls you should! I was at a friend's wedding a couple of weeks ago, and there was this guy and I had been talking to all night. I thought it was pretty clear we both wanted to kiss. I let it happen, when he made it happen.

He said "I have been thinking you were attractive all night but didn't think I'd kiss you. It was cute, but I was amazed he didn't see it coming unless he was playing coy. Also, I definitely used to go along with things I didn't really want to, and I've stopped.

Nothing bad has happened because of it! Wow, I have Tinder for months, and I still do not have any matches. Not a single one. How much do you use it?

And have you ever shown anyone your profile asking "why would this profile get no matches? It really isn't that hard. Some people like casual hook-ups, some do not. Gender and sexual orientation has little to do with it.

It's sad that societal norms have so successfully convinced us otherwise. If I'm going to be having sex with someone, I want it to be someone whose company I enjoy and whom I actually respect. Don't get me wrong, I still enjoy a casual hook up with no expectations of anything coming from it but I prefer to get to know the girl a bit beforehand. When I was going to join the Army, I was sent to a motel in my home city for a holdover until the next day when they would ship me and whoever else to MEPS Military Entrance Processing Station to get my physical taken care of and all that jazz.

I was told by my recruiter that I should not have sex or masturbate or anything the couple days before having my physical because it could possibly throw off some tests for too high or too low of protein count or whatever the reason was this was like 15 years ago. So the day of the motel stay there was this smokin' hot girl that was going to MEPS as well, but then she was going to be shipped out from there and she asked me "Wanna come back to my room and have some fun before I ship out?

She looked confused and said "sex isn't gross" but at that point I didn't know what to say anymore so I stopped talking and avoided eye contact. The fact of the matter is that I wasn't a virgin at that point 17 , but I was told not to have sex or masturbate by my recruiter, and my brain just wasn't registering as a normal hormonal male teenager at that point. And just so people are aware, I never ended up getting into the Army.

I passed all the tests, but they tried to fuck me over on the job I picked Aeroflight Operator, or "Drone Pilot" as it is known today because I tested out of high school early rather than graduated with other kids my age. So I found my way out of the military and was blacklisted for it. I could have banged a hot chick had I known I wouldn't have been in the military anyway!

Yeah, I learned after the fact that a recruiter will say and do almost anything in order to get you to sign up. BUT he was the authority in this situation, and I've never been one to fight the authority simply to fight it. I could have written this post when I was your age. I was desperate to get laid when I was in high school. Love and romance would have been awesome too, but I wanted SEX.

I didn't end up losing my virginity until I was in university. Maybe I was too obvious and put the guys off Isn't this why god made tinder. I heard that it's usually just for casual hook ups anyway. I could be wrong, I've been in a relationship the last 15 years.

My knowledge of single lifestyle is limited. Tinder, like every other online dating website or app, is a sausage fest. There's probably several dozen guys for each girl on it.

They almost always tend to be male dominated. A girl who is a 6 can get laid within 24 hours by a guy who is a 5 - 8. Maybe not the very first guy in line, but a guy. And in a "zone of attractiveness" generally generally the same as hers.

No one is saying that the first guy you find attractive in a room will want you. But it is pretty indisputably true that if you are female and a 6 and walk into a party with people, you can get laid, and WITHOUT resorting immediately to hitting on 1's.

The male experience simply isn't comparable. Sure, men can get laid if they lower their standards far enough. But the point of the cliche is that women can get laid without lowering their standards nearly as far, if at all. Unless your standard is "I only want the one guy I have a crush on right now, and not another guy who is objectively pretty much equal to that guy in all superficial ways.

I'm personally not down for random sex with girls I just met because of my fear of catching an STD. I'm more comfortable having sex with friends or ex-girlfriends. But yeah, dammit, this is probably why I haven't had sex in over a year. Anyone saying, "Post an ad on craigslist and see the line form around the block" has completely missed the point of your post.

I think many people have, actually, which is unfortunate because this is so fucking true. I am truly amazed at the lengths people are going to to avoid admitting that you have a point. Guys are so fucking desperate to hold on to this melodramatic perspective where they are the horny conquerors extracting sex from women in their ivory towers. It's like they can't admit that there are other ways men suffer because that's not supposed to be allowed either.

And God forbid women actually share in their suffering when it comes to getting laid. That might actually require you to think of women as fellow humans Saying that it's easier for women to find casual sex is not misogyny.

It doesn't mean that women want sex less than men, or that sex is the primary obsession in every man's life. I mean, would you disagree that generally, a man who has lots of sex is held in high esteem, while a woman who does the same is put down?

Don't you think that that alone would have a major impact on how willing people from each gender are to do it? I don't blame women at all for being less inclined to have casual sex when there's so much stigma attached to it, and I certainly don't think it's dehumanizing to say that.

The point she's trying to make is that "girls can't get sex anytime", which is wrong. A girl can get sex at anytime if her standards are low enough. I mean, the situation sounds uncomfortable, but once I disentangled myself from it I'd be like, "Hey, I'm not totally repulsive to all women ever! All right, I have to be honest, I don't even really care what OP's point was. Because what's actually going on here is that it's as hard for women to get their needs fulfilled as it is for men, and that needs to be acknowledged.

Just because you want sex and random comments doesn't mean someone else don't deserve sympathy as a result of getting those things more easily.

If sex is what you want, then it's frustrating to try getting it from people who want an emotional connection first. If emotional connection is what you want, then it's frustrating to try getting it from people who want sex with no strings attached. What I'm saying is that everyone has their own struggles with this shit, and it behooves us to accept that everyone deserves to have their effort and frustrations acknowledged.

Of course that woman freely admitted to getting hit on! Her point was that it's hard for her to get what she wants. Sexual attention from losers that don't give a shit about her as a human being isn't what she wants. It doesn't matter who has a harder time "getting laid". What matters is that all of us have a hard time getting our needs met. What if we changed the question to "who can go out and find a satisfying relationship"?

Women can probably get laid a bit easier than guys can, simply by going out and asking men on the street, but that's assuming that all women want that. If I go out with a guy and say "hey I want babies and I want to get married, you down? Isn't that true for both sexes though?

What guys can't get sex from a girl that is way below his standards? Or like, guys are so gung ho for sex that they'd never turn it down? Also, many guys don't bother being good for one night stands.

Sure, I can get a guy into bed, no problem. My chances of having an orgasm are still more likely if I go home alone and get cozy with my Hitachi Magic Wand. Guys will stick their dicks in you, but getting some rando to eat you out or rub your clit is still uncommon. I 23M want to up vote this, because yay equality, but it goes completely against my experience. Girls can certainly get sex whenever..

Sex with someone attractive may be a different story. Once had a guy tell me I was treating him like a piece of meat, he came over anyway lol. This is true it is a matter of standards, probably more like that for a man than we are willing to admit as well. This is petty ture I've been told by many that I'm slightly above average I'm looks but I have been tired down by single men men many of times. I have issues believing i look even average some days.

If you want to say what you are talking about "that all women can not necessarily fuck whoever they want whenever they want" that is a different matter. There have been studies showing that women rate men much more harshly than the other way around. Basically women have higher standards so when they say they are getting turned down by "average" guys they mean after they throw out the bottom half they are being turned down by the "average" guys in the already pre selected "good enough" group.

What these guys mean when they say that "women can get sex anytime they want" is really: All other women are invisible to them. That's why they can't get laid. I think maybe you're taking the ad hoc statements of society a little bit too literally.

We all know it's not a truism. What's really being gotten at is that a woman seeking sex has a much easier time than a man seeking sex, not that she can get it whenever, wherever, from whoever, however she wants. I know that if someone wants sex with me as a man , it's not that terribly hard to get barring relationship complications, i.

The person just has to be pleasant company and not hideous. In high school, however, different story; I wasn't emotionally ready. I wanted it, but I was NOT at a point where I would follow through with it; even then, I could have probably been convinced by someone who was willing to put in the time and effort. That being said, that puts me more on the prude side of the male spectrum in that age range.

Considering what virtually everyone has been commenting about the teenage male mind, and how prepared they are to have sex, what do you believe the contributing factors toward your high school experience were? What is it you think went wrong in that situation? Read the responses in this thread and you will find that many people absolutely believe it to be a truism.

You know, I agree with you OP. As a dude, I have denied sex on several occasions. There is only one thing I'm interested in knowing; how many sexual partners do women have in a lifetime compared to men. I'm especially interested in knowing this, because 6 out of the 7 sexual partners I've had in my life, had more sexual partners than myself. And in the 1 exception, we were tied in number.

So based on my personal experience, I could easily assume it's easier for women to get laid. Honestly though, I can believe that women face the same problems. The avarage number of sexual partners should be same for hetero women and men.

Because for every sexual encounter both sides get to add one. That's a very good point. I suppose we should consider the median number of sexual partners then. I guess the logic is there. But I can can give an example that may tip the scale in a way. In this example, there are 10 girls and 10 guys. All 10 women have sex with the same 5 guys, while the other 5 guys have no sex at all.

This would mean that each girl would have 5 sexual partners, and half the guys would have 10 sexual partners.

This is a completely over simplified example, and hardly has any real world application, but I could argue that it's possible in some way that less guys are having sex than women. But, I'm not a surveyor, so it could be the opposite way around in real life for all I know.

Thank you for this post! I have been wanting to write a similar rant for a long time, but mine was going to conclude with a bitter sort of "so f you all because us poor unattractive women exist too. I'm a women and I'm opposite I'm trying to wait till marriage and they are barking up my tree and I'm not skinny either. Sooo here's the thing. High School and College are not the real world. They are micro-cosms of the real world where everyone is going to be concerned about their image and peers.

If you go someplace in the real world where people are semi-anonymous start flirting or asking guys if they want to bang you'll find someone quickly enough. I'm out of college now and I can definitely find someone if I want someone. But it usually takes a little time and effort. I don't have "a line of guys" waiting for me at the snap of my fingers. That's the stereotype I'm tired of seeing.

I'm a 25 year old average looking guy, if I want to "find someone" it usually takes much more than just a little time and effort. Make an online account anywhere. I promise you you'll get a line. A guy could look like Johnny Depp and still have to send out messages. You have a solution to this "getting laid problem" but choose to ignore it.

There's literally nothing I, as a guy, could do to have as many options you. Even if I had no standards I still would have to meet her standards; I'd have to be somewhat funny, interesting, charming, etc.

These are not standards you have to meet at all to get laid. At worst you've been given a glimpse at what it's like to be a guy. Lots of effort and no payoff. A small glimpse was all you needed to complain. Imagine that you had no solution and even posting a profile pic online wouldn't net you anyone that's interested. You'd be almost approaching the "benefits" in dating men have. I sincerely hope you take advantage of all the options you are ignoring and see how easy compared to men it is for you to get laid.

I'd kill for a quarter of the things you can do. PS if you were a guy who was complaining he couldn't get laid everyone's first reaction would be it's your fault and you need to hit the gym, become better at seducing, and have an interesting life. Guys just accept that unless you're a male who looks like superman or have the charming skills of Don Juan women will ignore and reject you. Notice how no one is saying any improvement tips to you in here even though I would wager the real reason you're having trouble is because of something about the way you act.

I don't mean to offend, but it's something you should think about because no one will say it to you in real life. I agree with OP, I think it is a simplification that comes from the dominance of male redditors I presume and the kind of humor around here and self-victimization the males of reddit often proclaim. I have felt this for a while, too. For example, a girl in college told a friend via text that she would have sex with my other friend if he went to her room at that moment.

And he didn't even give it a second though, just "that's weird" it seemed incredibly insecure and people would have lost respect for the guy if he did it okay, the guy was me, I'm not a stud or anything btw, since the self-victimization here also goes to 'yeah, but you're attractive', confidence is attractive.

And I don't think that using Craigslist as an example is fair. We all have such vastly different ideas of sex that it is hard to make such generalizations. I will say that I have at times felt like it'd be easy for me to get sex from a gay man in my city, and I wonder if this is similar for girls with straight guys, but I think there are some more promiscuous scenes in the gay community sorry for the generalization , but even there, not if you're just not into that person. I just breathed a huge sigh of relief.

I have been in a fragile state of mind since I parted with a friend with benefits. I rejected my friend's advances once and I put the blame of losing the relationship on myself. I thought that I should be able to accept my friend's advances. I looked at pick up artists as a way to gain confidence, but I know that the culture and practice of picking up women is a hotbed for misogyny.

One of the major complaints of men who at one point could not find a sexual partner is that women always can, and this is used as a rationalization for sexually objectifying women. You just continued the stereotyping by saying "I'm like a girl when it comes to sex. I need to get to know her first. Why is that being like a girl? Plenty of girls like casual sex.. I think this is what op doesn't get. Most people are not looking for random hook ups all the time.

Most of us want to get to know a potential partner, not scope out pieces of ass. I'm not going to just fuck someone I made out with and danced with at a party. I don't know a fucking thing about them.

Just an interesting example of this embedded in culture: I just played a game about awareness and protection when out on the prowl. If you're a guy and trying to chat up girls, you get rejected twice, always. If you're a girl looking for a guy, you get 3 'Yes' from the three guys. This game was on an NHS website, bear in mind.

I agree with OP, but from MY experience, it totally is easy for woman to have sex or get it when they want to.

Now, switching gears, Ya it sucks of having this stereotype because it isn't true for everyone. My female friend which is very attractive, after a bad break up, has denied sex many many times from what she has told me.

She just isn't ready yet after the horrible break up I heard all about. It's different for everyone, and this stereotype unfortunately isn't gonna go away anytime soon. Substitute "body issues" for almost any aspect of what makes a successful adult and that is a man's world.

By u cant find someone to have sex i read it as i couldnt find someone attractive enough to have sex with I waited to have sex with a girl I was seeing because I wanted her to be committed to a relationship of some sort, and I let her know this. Three days later, she asks to be my SO, and coerces me into having sex with her.

She left two days later. As a man who absolutely loves sex, especially when rough or borderline kinky-transcendent, there are times when I simply do not feel like having sex, no matter hot the person is. I've always been really into spiritual, personal, and emotional development and reflection, and sometimes, I just have other things on my mind.

Perhaps I still want human contact or touch, but I'm not in the mood for some intercourse. Other times, I'm just not feeling turned out, perhaps because of an emotional reason.

For example, I've noticed if I'm still hurting from somebody that I love or miss, it can be hard to warm up to new people. There have been times when I was with somebody new, but in a sense, I felt a twinge of anxiety and could feel my body shaking. There are other times, when I feel hopelessly horny, and I just feel like ravishing the other person in every sexual way imaginable.

Sometimes when I really get to know a person, the deeper connection just turns me on so much that it's all I cant think about. I feel sometimes my body goes in ebbs and flows. I was blown away by a recent documentary I saw, 'Craigslist Joe' because that documentary Worth a watch if you get a chance. Anyone remember that site Stickam? I used to troll people for shits n gigs, ended up meeting my now husband on that site..

I am born and raised Australian, he's from Florida. We decided to say fuck the distance. We're now married and couldn't live without each other.

I had a serious relationship for awhile with someone off the platonic boards. I also had a fuck toy or two from Casual Encounters. The guys were normal.

It wasn't anything spectacularly strange or weird. First time was with this horrendously ugly obese chick. Bad combo, you can be lbs if you're cute you're cute. Or you could have a stunningly gorgeous body and be ugly as sin, but still nice body right? Well this chick was fat and ugly as hell. However, she had the most awesome personality I've ever witnessed in a female and we were freinds and occasional fuck buddies till we both moved on.

Second time on cl was a slightly overweight middle aged couple. That was interesting I guess, dude telling me to "fuck her to death" as hard as I can and chick telling me I'm way to big for her I just went right down the middle, no casualties. You should warn your friend that in some places you can be jailed if the victim turns you in. I know you said friend, but it sounds like he might need to know in case he ever thinks about doing it to someone else.

In fact, all of the men i've had sex with I've met through CL. I've had mixed experiences, but don't regret it one bit. The first guy, 'I', I actually met in the strictly platonic section. He was a year older than me. We seemed to hit it off right away, and a couple weeks into exchanging emails we decided to trade face pics.

I thought he was cute, and he seemed to feel the same about me. Eventually the conversation turned to sex and I revealed that I was still a virgin I was 22 at this point.

Jokingly, he would offer to show me some stuff I told him all of this of course. Anyway, needless to say I agreed to meet him after about a month of emailing and texting each other. I was so nervous. I was painfully shy before this, like i-would-stutter-when-i-talked-to-guys-shy. I'd never even had my first kiss, and here I was with this guy that i'd only gotten to know through text, and he's holding my hand and encouraging me to wrap it around his cock.

It excites me to remember that night. It was truly an erotic experience for me. We saw each other for a total of five months. Mostly bj's at first because I was so nervous about letting him touch me, worried that I would disappoint. But he was patient, and about 3 months into it we had sex for the first time.

It was fun, and it felt good, and he was very encouraging and did his best to make me feel comfortable and at ease. Before this I always thought i'd lose my virginity to my first bf. He has yet to come along, but now I'm a completely different person because of this experience, and i wouldn't have done it any other way. Guy number 2, 'J' I met as a way to try to get over guy number 1.

I'd developed feelings for 'I' and he didn't feel the same way, and in an effort to forget him asap I posted an ad looking for a fwb.

J replied and was the only one who caught my eye. He had just turned 21, meaning he was almost 2 yrs younger than me. We only texted for about a week before meeting up. He drove to my city, and we talked, and ate, and then found a quiet spot to make out. There was so much chemistry. Unfortunately, this initial chemistry was misleading, and we only saw each other for about a month before we stopped speaking. I wish i'd never slept with him.

He was too young, we were too different. Then there was guy number 3, who i've been seeing for the past 3 months. After things ended with guy number two I decided to post an ad for a makeout buddy. I thought he was so cute and sexy. I replied instantly, and the next day we texted all afternoon into the late hours of the night. We only texted for about 3 days before i suggested that we meet up.

He was nervous, having never met anyone online before. Still, he picked me up, we drove around for a while. Then stopped at the beach and walked around for a bit before we had our first kiss. It was sweet and romantic, which I know sounds odd considering that we had barely met.

He calls me babe, and so do I, but we have yet to define our relationship even though it's something that has been brought up in the past. Anyway, we had sex eventually, and it is great! He is by far the most attentive and enthusiastic lover I have encountered.

And I like him a lot. Idk how or when things will end with P. But when it does I probably will not be going back to craiglist for a while. I'm not good with casual sex, and i've learned this lesson the hard way. So while I don't regret doing things this way, it's time for a change. My wife usually initiates it- finds some chick to come over that we can play with.

I will definitely say it's better to go with people who are not "new at this" as some people are prone to sudden freak outs when they realize what they're doing. There's a baseball bat up my butt and I'm licking some dude's hairy asshole. What the fuck am I doing here? One was a couple where the guy was bi. We met up for a couple of drinks and a week or two later I stopped by.

They had bi porn on, we had some drinks. I sat in between them. We all started masterbating. They both jerked me off and blew me, I played with both of them while this was happening. The wife licked my ass, I don't remember if I fucked her or not. Another couple the guy wanted to watch someone with his wife and I guess join in. Mid 40's, she'd apparently never been with anyone else. Ended up being pretty awkward, he couldn't stay hard, and I left as soon as I'd finished.

Once met two older ladies, they both looked liked they'd lived pretty hard. Brought over some booze, hung out, and had a sort of threesome with them in a sketchy basement suite livingroom. I think one of them had kids asleep in the bedroom.

I've also hooked up with a lot of transexuals via CL, and has some pretty awesome experiences, and some sketchy ones as well. Those are a whole other set of stories though. I'm trying to remember if I've ever met a girl from CL, and no one springs to mind. Not from lack of trying, but women seem few and far between I guess. Several years ago, I was lonely, overworked, and desperate for sex.

I went to craigslist and found a girl posting saying that she had caught her boyfriend cheating, and as payback she was posting on CL to find someone one to have sex with.

There was a picture of her, and of course, she was hot. The only catch was that the BF had to give this person a blowjob first.

I said F it, I'll do it. After some back and forth through email we had set up that I would get a hotel room, and they would come meet me. The guy would come in first, and then the girl would come up after he received his 'punishment'.

I went to a hotel, checked in, and shortly after he showed up. It was completely awkward, and I tried to use a condom while he went down on me. Eventually he asked if I could take it off.

He started asking me if it felt ok, and at that point, I knew something was up. I finished did not let him swallow , he left. I email the guy asking him what's up. He said she was on her way up. More time passes, nothing. I go to the front desk and ask if they had seen a girl come through. I emailed the guy again, and he basically laughed at me and told me that there was no girl and he just tricked me into letting him blow me. I felt like an asshole. I felt so low. Stayed in the room that night, and went home the next morning, my dignity dragging on the floor.

I'm currently married and have never told anyone about this. I'm sure this secret will go with me to my grave. I was doing construction at the time and 5 hours from home and staying in a hotel room so decided to try it out. Found a married milf in a good marriage but just had boring sex life so we met at a hotel nearby her house. I was 27 and she was late 30's I think. She had some fetishes that were fun, like using pantyhose that we both seemed to enjoy and she was aggressive and experienced so I had a blast despite showing up at like midnight and having to work at 7am so I would take a 5-hour energy, fuck the shit outta her and pass out.

She was always so nice and thought I was such a "cute boy" but we did it several times while I was in town and stayed in touch via email for awhile. Overall I'd say a good experience. I ran it through Google Translate so I could see where I was going. What I can only assume is the Rants and Raves section ended up as I didn't really find it different. Even the ethnic composition was surprisingly American sounding, there were several Latinos and Asians, and several people looking for black people.

A surprising amount of English as well. What the hell is going on, Sweden? Posted an ad in the casual encounters section when I was in college wanting to explore bdsm. Got a couple hundred responses, but ended up meeting one guy. We continued a sexual relationship on and off up until last year.

We are still friends. It's been 9 years. Shortly after leaving my first wife 8 years ago, I answered an MW4M ad. The poster said right in the ad that she was crazy. I told her I liked a little crazy in a woman. She responded almost immediately asking how I felt about short people.

I said I didn't care what size she was. I guess I passed her two tests because we traded phone numbers, started chatting on the phone and made a date. When she showed up, she was super nervous about her size, which was even shorter than what she had described.

She was a dwarf, not just short. But I truly didn't care, and found her shyness endearing. I thought she was pretty cute. Once I put her at ease, she started initiating everything. First, "I want to get naked in bed with you.

Being the lonely man that I was, I agreed. That was feeling pretty good when she asked me to fuck her, which I promptly did. It was really hot for both of us, and we started doing this regulatrly. As I got to know her, I got the story of her family. She and her husband had a son with some serious physical and developmental disabilities such that he needed round the clock home care from his parents.

The stress of their son's illness had eroded the quality of their marriage to where they were just staying together for their son. She was afraid that if she divorced hin he'd leave and she'd have to do it all by herself. She was also going to school at the time.

I started getting frustrated because I had all sorts of time for her, but she had trouble getting out to see me because of her busy double life. She would often miss the dates we did have planned, and then show up at my place without warning other nights, which was awkward because I was seeing other people.

She knew I was, and accepted it, but still got jealous about it. We couldn't work through our sceduling issues without fighting, and I was progressively feeling more and more guilt about the husband she was cheating on, so I ended it after a couple months. It was my last relationship like that, and made me realize how important communication, integrity, honesty and trust are to relationships.

I have settled for nothing less since then, and have been much happier. I met a friend's at-the-time current girlfriend on there.. Does "hooking up" include getting paid to kick a dude in the balls a bunch of times. Cos if so, yes. And it was an interesting Sunday afternoon. I've been using CL to hook up pretty steadily since about and had mixed experiences. I have an interest in really passable transvestites and I use CL mostly to satisfy this curiosity. I should point out that I live in Montreal and we have an awesome CL.

I should also point out that I'm handsome and very young looking with an athletic build, little body hair, and a pretty nice dick, so I do well in terms of garnering interest from others. I'm also bi and have had encounters with both sexes so I'll outline my best experiences here:. Amyiaa is a shemale pornstar and has remained without a doubt my luckiest, best, most passable T-girl experience.

We hooked up very early in her career and I'm not sure that she was making movies at that time, but she has since appeared in quite a few movies. We had exchanged a few emails and moved to texting, and arranged for a morning encounter at her place downtown. In the interest of keeping things safe, my rule with first-time CL encounters is never sex, usually just mutual oral. The story is pretty short, I get really excited by these encounters and usually cum pretty quick.

Basically I got there, got comfortable and then started to massage her for a bit. When she started arching her ass towards me I pulled down her panties and took off my clothes. I lined my cock up between her cheeks and just hot-dogged her while I massaged her.

I remember as she arched her ass towards me the head of my dick would almost slip into her hole and that turned me on like nothing else. I blew while doing this all along her back. She was a bit pissed that I came so fast but I was happy and remember it as a very positive experience.

When I watch her movies now I get to kind of relive it. I can't link to her movies because I'm at work and I don't want to put her full name but you should be able to find her with some Google-fu. I met Scott on CL and we moved to skyping. Scott is like me, tall, young looking, little body hair, athletic, good looking, nice cock. He is really charming, polite, clean and has his own place.

We have a lot of fun doing mutual oral and rim jobs and continue to hook up occasionally to this day. Becky is a 20 year old born-again Christian girl that lives just outside the city. She loves jesus and is a high-performer at school but obviously has sexual curiosities that led her to post on CL. I responded with some pics of myself and we began a dialogue that lasted a few months. We got to know each other and eventually met up. Our hookups were gradual but eventually we started fucking and she was even down for anal after awhile.

We have an 8 year age difference so things never really got serious but we still talk all the time and hook up when it's mutually convenient. I've met a few other girls through CL but none hold a candle to Becky. Andrew would post on CL looking for young guys to fuck his wife while he watched. I responded and we talked on MSN occasionally for a few months. He wanted to develop a bit of trust in me and we were waiting for the right time for us all to meet up.

Eventually I went to their house one afternoon and met Chantal. She was a really fit, attractive french woman in her 40's. She fulfilled an amazing MILF fantasy for me by greeting me at the door in lingerie and just sort of taking control the way you would expect an older women to do.

Andrew just liked to film and watch, he would never film my face so I was cool with it. The sex was always really intense and Chantal would scream and get into it, almost like she was playing it up for the movie. I've met up with them maybe a half a dozen times since then and we keep in touch to this day. These are my best CL experiences.

I've never had an STD and use my gut and my instincts to determine whether a situation is right for me. I've have had bad experiences like getting money stolen or hooking up with disgusting people that leave me feeling terrible after I cum.

I get free massages some times from guys which is another great use for CL. I encourage others to post and meetup, just make sure you always play safe and listen to your instincts when a situation doesn't feel right. My roommate does all the time. Until he went out of state to visit his dad. While out of state, he posted on craigslist for that city, and his ex boyfriend was apparently creeping hard on him and searched that city's craigslist just in case he did this.

He found the post by my roommate again, in another state, so he had no reason to find this post other than being a stalker , logged into his cell phone account which he somehow knew the password for, and started calling all the recently called numbers demanding to know who each person was.

Mine wasn't in the "casual encounters" section, but I did find a date with a local woman in the W4M section. Her wit was strong and her pictures showed that she was attractive, so I emailed her. We chatted for almost 2 months before meeting face to face. Lots of quirky jokes and sarcasm back and forth. When we decided to meet, we shot some pool and bar-hopped until finally I said which I still contest is the smoothest line I've ever said "You know, you don't have to go home tonight if you don't want to We dated for about 5 months until I stuck my head in my ass and broke up with her.

I'm married to the best woman evar now, but sometimes I still think about being shitty to the woman I met on Craigslist. Well, this will get buried, but one of my close friends posted in casual encounters and ended up having sex with a married lesbian couple in their 30s we're both early 20s a few times. He broke things off after they took him to a place with trampoline floors and foam pits..

This is the score of the century. Broke it off with the trampoline and foam pits? Thats when it gets good! Tell him he is a fool, sincerely - Reddit. I have the obvious stories of meeting up with a girl and having sex. Some fun, some semi-interesting. The first experience with this was a couple looking for a man to get blown by the wife in front of the husband.

I was down, so I went to this house 45 minutes away and it was a total redneck couple. The wife was a once hot, now semi-beat chick with a still awesome rack. They wanted pics, but I said no, they went into the bathroom and discussed it for 15 minutes, came back out and said okay. They took me upstairs, I lay down on the sons bed, and she blow me and titty fucked me while her husband jacked off in a stool in the corner.

She wanted to fuck me you could tell as I have a 9 inch dick that's over 6 inches thick around, but her husband wasn't down. Another time I met up with a girl and didn't know she was going to be having her boyfriend there.

I drove way out this dirt road in the middle of nowhere and went into her house. After a short 'tour' we got down to business. She was a little thick, but good, and in the middle she asks me if her boyfriend can come up and watch. I'm like "wtf" but I start to power through, trying to cum so I can get out of there.

She asks again and tells me that he's down in the basement tied up and gagged and she wants him to come watch. I don't respond, but fuck her really hard so I can cum, at which point she asks me to cum on her face. I do, and I cum a LOT. I climb off her and as soon as my feet hit the floor she yells for her boyfriend at the top of her lungs.

I run to the attached bathroom and I look out as this guy, not gagged, not bound, comes into the room. She motions at him, and I watch, horrified, as he leans over and starts lapping my cum off her face I had another run in with one, knowingly, where a girl said she wanted her sissy boyfriend to watch her get fucked by a huge cock, so I went to a motel in the middle of the night, she had left the door open, and I came in to a lovely thick in all the right places girl in a laced body stocking getting her pussy eaten by a man in girls panties in doggy style.

She confidently tells me 'hey, come over. I walk right up to her and she, lying on her back, takes my cock and shoves it in her mouth and starts sucking it. She says all sorts of degrading things to the panty boy like 'oh you wish i was doing this to you' and 'oh look how huge this cock is' and all that. At a certain point I start fucking her and she makes him lick her clit while I do so. At the point that I'm going to cum, at this point I'm pretty turned on by the novelty and taboo nature of what's going on, to cum on HIS face.

I pull the rubber off and unload a massive load on his face, which he puts right at the level of her vagina.

She then makes him lick up the mess. I actually met up with this couple again and she got even more hardcore, fucking him in the ass with a strap on in front of me, licking my ass, and then while I was getting my ass licked, out of nowhere the guy just starts sucking my cock. I couldn't see he was going to do this because while she was licking my ass I was doggy style sorta with my ass up and she had her face buried. I was totally shocked, and I don't have the slightest bi tendencies, but I just sorta let it happen due to the situation.

I stood up and she started blowing me, and then he started licking my balls and she forced him to suck my cock. I fucked her again and came all over her pussy and he licked it up.

I also had another experience where I actually met a couple on CL and we talked and had a beer on the porch in a really nice part of a really nice town and a guy told me how his kids were asleep and his wife was in the living room ready for me and she really wanted a stranger to fuck her and blow a load in her and she was fixed, they already had 2 kids etc. So I go in and there's this smokin' hot wife lying on the floor.

She has amazing skin and tits and I go over to her and we start making out. Immediately the husband starts jacking off and I make her suck my dick while she's doggy style. I fuck her a while missionary and then switch her over doggy. I can see she can't handle doggy so I tell her I'm gonna cum. I fuck her really hard and I cum right inside her, hard, and a lot, at which point she cums really really hard and slumps down on the ground.

I left and was contacted once more by them wanting me to come over. Super respectable people, but just really freaky. I also met a couple who I have an ongonig thing with where we DP his wife and she's a squirter.

She also does double vag, which is totally insane as he's just a bit smaller than I am. I can get her off in about 25 seconds so she always wants me to come over, and the husband wants me to fuck her when he is away on business trips.

I met up with a guy and we had drinks and talked then decided to hook up on the next meeting. He came over and we had unextraordinary sex. At the next meeting I got freaked out and backed away while we were making out. Then I realized that what I was craving was not so much sex as ordinary closeness.

So we lay there together partially dressed for 30 minutes and I told him this was all a mistake and he understood completely and left. That was the end of the affair. At 17 I was feeling pretty bicurious but also too scared to admit that to anyone. Took a while to find the right guy, but eventually went for it.

We met a a local pub, he drove me to his place and fun times were had by all. I met him once more a few months later, but that was it. And considering the horror stories you hear, it was pretty good. I got to meet a guy anonymously, suck some penis to see if I liked it I did and then I never have to see him again.

It was especially god for me because I'd never been able to successfully masturbate until that point, due to a horrible little thing called phimosis tight foreskin.

I came for the first time with his help, and my penis is eternally grateful. I had just turned 20 and always had the fantasy of having a sexual encounter with an older woman. So I posted an ad in the casual encounters section not knowing what to expect. I got several emails in response but one caught my eye. She was 43 and had a similar fantasy as I but in reverse. We exchanged several emails, some sexual and some not, exchange some pictures clothed ones and after about a week we decided to meet up at a coffee shop downtown.

I almost didn't go through with it, since it was a totally random woman off CL and in the back of my head I thought it'd end up being some crazy old gay man. I started driving to the coffee shop and right when I'm about to turn around, she calls me and I answer.

Says she's running late and will be there soon. For some reason, actually hearing her voice and knowing she was a real person made me go through with it.

So we meet at the coffee shop and I'm really nervous. She looked relatively attractive in her pictures but I was surprised to see how hot she was when we met. She'd never had kids, and clearly worked out. Looked far younger than she was and she actually showed me her drivers licence when I doubted she was really So we chat for about 10 minutes before she mentions that her office is just down the road and we can walk there. I'm so nervous that I don't even take a sip of my coffee and chuck the whole thing in the trash.

We make it to her office in this high-rise office building. Turns out she was some kind of executive boss lady. She invites me to sit on her super comfortable leather couch and after some more awkward conversation, we start making out. Things escalate from there and after having sex in pretty much every part of her office we decide to call it a day.

She expressed interest in meeting up again but we didn't meet up again after that. Probably the most erotic story I have.

As a young gay man I didn't know how to meet other gay guys. So when I turned 18 22 now I decided that I would go to Craigslist to meet guys.

I lost my virginity to a guy from CL. I met 20 or so different guys from the site and I've only had one bad expierience. I didn't drive at the time so I had the guys pick me up.

One guy picked me up and took me to his place. We fucked 3 times in the span of 2 hours. Then when I was ready to go he told me I was going to spend the night with him.

Instantly my heart dropped into my stomach. After about 20 mins of talking I convinced him to take me back to the area of where I lived. One day when My ex broke up with me I was feeling lonely so I figure why not Craigslist. One of my sleazy buddies told me he found someone who gave him a Bj a while back on Craigslist. I get on, find a description, mid 30's milf, this lady was smokin'. I call her and let her know I want to hangout. I meet her and she doesn't really look like the picture but I said fuck it she's alright.

Btw I meet her at some nice apt complex. Anyway she gets in. You can smell she just showered and talking led to kissing, kissing led to more sexual touching she grabbed penis she starts sucking my dick. It's feeling all to well. We go up to her apt and she says she's on her period so we go anal. I just slid right in, and that was weird I thought.

I'm still balls deep and I'm not gay but it felt good. I let her dick go and kept going and came inside. I finished up told him next time you should just give a heads up and I leave. As soon as I get home I wash my dick so hard it almost fell off. I even tested myself thank god I was negative. Moral of the story; don't meet people on Craigslist. Passable chicks with dicks are in high demand. They don't need to trick guys. There are tons of straight guys that are into them.

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